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Satan vs. The Believer | Consequences of Not Forgiving | Lesson 5 |
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Several weeks ago, we looked at this portion of Scripture in our quest to gain understanding of Satans influence over Believers, and the Believers ability (or better stated) the resources from God to resist and overcome Satan. Because the subject of "Satan vs. the Believer" is a subject that involves almost every aspect of the Believers life and Gods plan for the Ages, we are looking at this particular subject in "snap-shot" fashion. By so doing, we will see many other subjects and events. HOWEVER our focus is on information within those broader subjects and events that directly relate to this matter of the control of Satan, and the Believers warfare. Our major concern is not to study the subjects in which we find this information concerning Satan. INSTEAD, we want to see the facts of Satans workings (or his "devices") within these many areas, and bring those far flung facts into a correlated picture. I realize that as we "lift-out" these facts concerning Satan from the subjects and events surrounding those facts, we cannot take the time to study, in detail, the subjects or events that provide us with the needed information to make an understandable picture. This type of study will, by its very nature, leave many unanswered question about the "main" subject. To attempt to study each of these many subjects or events would literally require a study of the entire Word of God. This "hop-skip-n-jump" type of study is necessary because, the information concerning Satan and his work is spread through the entire Bible, and there are FEW events or subjects that are exempt from this satanic activity. Because of the vastness and diversity of the Biblical information concerning Satan, a person will continue to learn many things about Satan throughout a lifetime of Bible study. However, there are some basic facts concerning Satan that every Believer should and can know, no matter the stage or depth of their Biblical study. Without this basic information, and the consistent use of these truths by the power of the Holy Spirit, the Believer is a "sitting-duck" for Satans attacks and "fiery darts". Some of the questions left in our "wake" as we navigate through the very deep waters of the Word of God, cannot be ignored or left for another time. When those questions involve an individual and its possible, I try to answer those questions privately. When those questions come from several people, it is quite evident that those needs are close to "home", and should have public treatment. An area of questions that has repeatedly surfaced from several people.., is that of forgiveness. The subject of forgiveness is one that cannot be treated lightly or quickly. To understand the scope and application of forgiveness, we need to go back to the Garden of Eden and follow through the lives and events of the Old Testament saints. We need to add to those areas, a careful observation of the promises, covenants and prophecies. Obviously to understand forgiveness, along with those things, we need the teaching concerning the Eternal Plan of God in redemption and the New Testament doctrines on the subject. There is no way we can cover all of that material, plus other areas that influence the very important and timely subject of human to human forgiveness. We can, however, lay the basic ground work needed to understand the questions that have been ask. Lets look at the passage that brought to light these latest questions, and reestablish the context of this type of forgiveness, and its application to our everyday lives The context of this passage has to do with a matter of church discipline, in which a man was "put out" of the church for open sexual sin. It is obvious that the man turned from his "ways", and Paul is saying that now he should be restored to the fellowship of the church. In passing, the restoration of an offending Believer to the fellowship of the Body should always the focus of the forgiveness of another Believer.
As with many other Biblical subjects, forgiveness has many aspects. The type of forgiveness illustrated in this passage was for the benefit of both the one being forgiven, and the ones doing the forgiving. Satan is eager to "take more than belongs to him" (literally take advantage of us). When we do not forgive others, especially those in Christ, we allow Satan to "take advantage" or have more than belongs to him. Notice first of all the choices or latitude the sovereign God has given Believers in this situation. If these Believers at Corinth had not forgiven and reaffirmed this man, Satan would have taken more than belonged to him (taken advantage of them). Please see what the Bible says here, not what we want it to say, in support of our theory. It is the facts of the Word of God we must harmonize.., not mans opinion. I have a little confession to make... You love confessions, dont you? My plan was to take the first 15 minutes of this lesson to answer the questions concerning forgiveness. My original scribbled outline indicated that it was possible. However, when I began to put the "meat" on the outline, I found that if I said "so-n-so" in an abbreviated form, it didnt answer anything. So Im going to take the whole session on this subject. Even so, Im sure there will be many questions, yet unanswered. Those questions will come primarily from a lack of overall knowledge of the truths of the Word of God harmonized. Even though we will take the entire session on forgiveness, we will see many things concerning Satan vs the Believer. Remember, information about Satan is found only as "extra" information given in relationship to some other subject, so dont miss these facts. Satan would overreach if these at Corinth did not forgive and reaffirm this man. Therefore, Paul says they SHOULD forgive and reaffirm this one for their benefit, and the benefit of the man. If these people had a choice in that they could either forgive.., or not forgive with the associated results, how could God be sovereign in this matter??? We will take that up in lessons yet to come. It takes a God of infinitely greater sovereignty to allow certain freedoms of choice for mankind..., and yet have his will perfectly carried out.., than if all the actions and choices of mankind were totally controlled. Why, even I could accomplish my will, if I could control every persons actions and choices. That wouldnt take much of a God. But give every human certain latitude in their actions and choices.., and still have His will accomplished, TAKES A BIGGER GOD THAN MOST OF US CAN EVEN DREAM ABOUT!! Dont limit God to simply an omnipotent puppeteer or a robot operator. That was where we were in this subject when we left for the break. Because our forgiving or not forgiving plays a role in Satans overreaching into our lives with his control, it is important that we understand forgiveness, and especially "human" forgiveness of other humans. We have studied this subject before, therefore I will not take time away from our series of "Satan vs. the Believer" to go back over the Biblical support material. Along the line, there will be important information concerning the subject of Satans control of Believers, and I will point out some of this even though it may not be absolutely necessary for a summary of Believers Forgiveness. In this whole matter of Believer forgiving Believer, there are several facts that we must have right "up-front" in order to clearly grasp the importance, and the "mechanics" of personal forgiveness. All of these facts have been seen in past studies, I simply want to "run-them-by-you" again. Not all of these facts are found in
Those in Christ (ALL Believers) who refuse to forgive another: Believers in this condition have, literally, placed themselves in "Satans camp", AND are living in a similar manner as Satan when he set himself again God! Yes!! A Believer is truly an instrument of Satan, when in this state of not forgiving other Believers. When in a state of not forgiving, Satan has a right to "over-reach" or take "advantage" of that Believer, because that Believer is operating by the Old Sin Nature that was spawned or fathered by Satan. The Old Sin Nature is the property of Satan and under his control or influence by virtue of birth.
We must remember that one Believer forgiving another has nothing to do with the "forgiveness of sins"!! DONT MISS THAT FACT !!!!! Only Christ can forgive another of their sins!! What another Believer did to you or with you, may have been sin. If so, the offending Believer NEEDS to have their sins forgiven. However, to forgive sins.., YOU CANT !!!! No matter who you are, how much you know, how much money you have, how many good deeds you have performed, etc..., you dont have the resources or the right to forgive even the smallest sin!! To attempt to do so, OR to have the attitude that you can forgive sins is blasphemous. You cannot forgive your own sins, let alone the sins of another. ONLY GOD CAN FORGIVE SINS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Withholding your forgiveness from another, IN NO WAY stops or hinders God from forgiving that person their sins. ALL sin is against God!! When we sin, other humans may and often are affected. That sin, which is against God, may have also taken from, destroyed or damaged the possessions, reputation, etc. of some other human. When some person takes from another their possessions, reputation, peace of mind, etc., etc...., the offending party "owes" or is obligated to return, restore or replace that which was taken or effected. It is in this area that human forgiveness takes place. Most offenses of one Believer against another are in the areas of words, attitudes and actions. As a Believer, whose sin God has fully forgiven, I am, in like manner, to forgive those who have offended or trespassed against me. I am to release them from any obligation owed to me as a result of their actions, attitudes, words, etc. I am to pardon them from any social or moral debt owed to me, and do so in a manner as though the offense had not been committed (as per the definition of forgiveness). In reality, I am to release them at the very moment of their offense against me. By no means, am I to "let the sun go down on my wrath". To do ANY less, indicates that I am living in sin, and a type of sin that will breed bitterness, vindictiveness, etc. If I dont forgive the other, but instead harbor those feelings of hurt and obligation, they will grow within my very being UNTIL I am controlled by those sins, even though the original sin was committed by another. At that point, even though I didnt commit the original sin, Satan has an advantage over me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have stated over and over again that there are several types of forgiveness mentioned in the Bible. Let me point out two types that have a bearing on this situation: (1) Forgiveness of the offense, Believer to Believer This should be immediate. This type of forgiveness need not be public or even known by the offending party. Under some circumstances, this type of forgiveness can properly become public, BUT it MUST first become a reality within the Believers life, BEFORE it is brought into the "public eye". If this is not the case, the whole process is hypocrisy. This type of forgiveness or "release" is internal. It is accomplished by the grace of God, and the power of the Holy Spirit as He applies the Word of God to our lives. This type of forgiveness can only take place when the Believer is walking in the Spirit.., AND it will take place if the Believer is walking in the Spirit. Forgiveness or withholding forgiveness of "Believer to Believer" is a pretty good "proof" of walking in the Spirit or carnality. As a result of this personal forgiveness or release, that forgiving Believer sees the offending person as God sees them. Therefore, the forgiving Believer has a godly love for the one forgiven, and is willing to give of self for the others benefit. In this Spiritual state of mind, a Believer do not see the other as one who should bring benefit to themselves, INSTEAD they see the opportunity to give of self, so the other may grow in grace and knowledge of Christ. The object of this type of forgiveness or release is not restoration or restitution, but pure grace for the others Spiritual benefit. HOWEVER, restoration or restitution, which is the next type of forgiveness, CAN NOT take place until this "first type" is fully activated in the heart of the offended or the one sinned against. (2) Forgiveness of the personal restitution, responsibility and/or consequence (as relating to the one offended) This type of forgiveness happens: (1) When restitution is completed, or (2) When restitution is impossible.., OR (3) When the offended party wants and is willing to show godly grace for the Spiritual benefit of the one who committed the offense. Both of these types of forgiveness or release are difficult, and I dont think we could rate one more difficult than the other. However, it is easier to evaluate the second type, because it deals with external things that can be seen and calculated. Believers fail in both areas simply because they are carnal, and fully in love with themselves. However, imbedded in that carnality is the sadistic and vindictive attitude of vengeance or desire to personally punish. Sad to say, if the Believer would "get out of Gods way", God will bring proper punishment, because God says that vengeance belongs to Him, and He will repay. If God said it, He will do it!!!! So get out of the way, and let Him do it! Lets look at a teaching of Christ that "zeros" in on this subject very clearly. We often see the first part of this passage, and we should. However, when we put the first part of this passage in the context of the whole passage, it will come alive with greater, fuller and more dynamic meaning and application.
That is the familiar passage, and it has great depth of teaching. However, lets move beyond this introduction. Peters question and Christs introductory remarks spawned an even greater teaching of Christ. Notice Today, Christians have lots of answers, and that is not all bad. Knowing the answer is of little value, unless we can use that answer to live the process. Knowing the answer is not enough!! You must live the process by means of the answer!!!!!! So..., lets look at Christs description of the process. As Christ often does, He will teach the "positive" by examining the "negative". This style of teaching is not very popular today. That figures, because the teachings of Christ are not very popular, either. We like to use the "words" of Christ as "window dressing", BUT we are not as enthused about the lessons taught by those words.
Selling the servant would have been the proper consequences for the offense of not paying the debt. This would be normal in the process of restitution for that day and age.
Notice carefully!!! This servant was unable to pay.
In MOST offenses of Believers against Believers, the offending Believer is not able to make proper and complete restitution. Its pretty hard to take back cutting words, or rebuild a damaged reputation, or restore confidences, etc. There is no way of bringing complete restitution in these situations. Sometimes there is no way of bringing any restitution or reconciliation of any nature. However far too often, the Believer against whom the offense was committed INSISTS that such impossible restitution be accomplished BEFORE they will release or forgive the offender. This is a sin, and often of GREATER magnitude than the original offense. This is a sin that strikes at the very REASON Christ died on the cross. When impossible restitution is demanded, it is an indication that the offended Believer DOES NOT understand the teaching of the Word of God.., OR they want to do Gods job and hand out the punishment or vengeance themselves. That desire is a state of pure carnality, as bad if not worse than the original offense. This fact CANNOT be stated too often. Lets read on.....
Notice the evidence of BOTH types of forgiveness. The master was "moved" with compassion. In this part of the story, Christ is giving us the example of HOW Believers should respond. It is in the same manner in which Christ responded. This was internal, and was for the well being and benefit of the servant (the one offending), not the master (the one the offense was against). There seems to be no benefit to the master in the internal act. BUT look AGAIN!!!! His "compassion" was strengthened and brought into practical everyday living. Believe you me, that is a great benefit! He began to "walk his talk". We could stand some of that in Christianity today. Why dont you get in on the "ground floor" of this tremendous eternal investment, and start a buying frenzy of "compassion", it has great returns. Compassion was one of the major evidences of divine life in Christs ministry. Try it! You might like it! Compassion is a necessity to walking in the Spirit, and especially compassion toward others Believers.
How can we be so blind and callused ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? We dont have time to take this passage apart in order to get the real deep truths. However, we need to apply the surface truths FIRST, anyway! We are to be of "one mind". That "one mind" is described in Last but not least. If you are living by this sinful practice of returning evil for evil, and are not demonstrating compassion, etc., you are NOT righteous.
For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous,
and his ears are open to their prayers;
but
the face of the Lord is against those who do evil."
Where is the reality of our Christian life??? There is not much evidence of the New Birth in our actions. If we didnt have a "fish" on the rear bumper of our over priced cars.., who would know we were "one" with Christ? If you didnt tell anyone that you were a Christian, would they know by the way you act, speak and think? Would they know we are Christians by the way we show love for one another? Oh, God help us!!! Wouldnt it be wonderful, if we were taken to court for our faith, AND were condemned as a Christian..., BECAUSE they found enough evidence in our living to know we had been with Jesus? Folks! We NEED a revival among Believers. We are so dead, and SO callused that the Word of God does not move us. We can listen, read and memorize the Word of God over and over again.., YET, the truths of the Word of God are so weakly evidenced in our attitudes, speech and actions. We walk away from the teaching of the Word of God, and our lives do not move any closer to holiness. If your going to heaven or hell depended on a court of law examining the evidence of your life.., Where would the judge direct you to go? Read on in the passage.., if you dare! But remember... "To him that knows to do good and does not do it unto him it is sin".
By the evidence of your heart and action...., do you qualify to
be sent to the "torturers" (
If I refuse to release the Believer who has offended me, Satan can and will overreach and control my life. In that state, to one degree or another, I will be the BIG looser! The very least I will lose is the joy and peace of God. My emotions will be shattered, my conscience seared and I will, very likely, develop physical, social and psychological problems, to say nothing of the greater problem of taking a nose-dive Spiritually. Remember..., the joy you had in fellowship with other Believers??? BUT then an "offense" occurred? Because you refused to "release" or forgive the offender, NOW when you are in the presence of that person or even think about them.., you have NO joy, at all!! That persons offense is now CONTROLLING your life and emotions!!! Sin can dominate our lives in more ways than one. Whether it is personal sin or the sin of another, either way SIN is "king" of the life and controlling all we do, say or think. As a matter of fact, just thinking about that person and you get a knot in your stomach, loose your train of thought, dont sleep at night, loose you appetite (or maybe eat continually) etc. My friend that is no way to live life, to say nothing of living the Christian life. More often than not, when I work with Christians who have deep seated emotional problems, I find that the beginnings of those problems are in the unforgiving spirit, and the harboring of bitterness that follows. Christ, as He hung on the cross, suffered much more bitterly that you and I ever will. Christ looked down the ages and saw you, and knew all of your offenses against Him. Your offenses against Christ were so numerous and great that they nailed Christ to the cross. Yet, for the JOY that was set before Him, He endured the cross despised the shame..., AND offers you full and free forgiveness from those many awful offenses. Christ says, as a Believer, you are to do in similar manner for other Believers for whom Christ also died. Will you follow Christs command? OR Will you defiantly tell Christ that you know more than He.., AND Youll do it your own way? Satan felt the same way about it.., AND basically did the same thing.
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